03-27-24 08:29 PM - Post#366625 In response to james
lastly the tension is enormous. it is for me.
i wanted my oldest son to play in the ivy league paying full freight bc he has the aptitude.
he likely wont be an nba prospect but he's skilled and tall.
instead he is doing the opposite of what i did and getting paid for it.
i made my own decision on college and he made his.
my dad offered me the value of my scholarships if i took one.
instead i went to yale.
my son took the money. but from a collective